The Bride’s Survival Guide: Stress-Free Wedding
There is nothing more exciting than your wedding day. It is a dream that every girl wishes to come true at the right time and with the right person. Wedding preparation can be demanding, dragging, and tiring. Some brides don’t look their best on their wedding day because of all the things they went through during wedding planning.
You have to look your best on your big day, some say that it is impossible because wedding preparation can take almost all their energy to look good, so they end up looking stressed and worn out exactly on the day they have dreamt for a long time. This can be true if you lack planning and fail to strategize properly.
This guide can help you go through a stress-free wedding preparation and wedding celebration.
Stress-Free Wedding Preparation And Celebration
Here is a guide to follow to enjoy a stress-free wedding preparation and celebration:
- Ask help
As much as you want to decide and do everything on your own, help may be necessary. Ask your friends and relatives to offer you a hand to do some of the ad hoc for your wedding preparation. You can ask someone to create an event page for you on social media, or you can request someone to pick up wedding favors on your behalf.
You are not alone, have someone to help you with some minor responsibilities you need to do for your wedding. Of course, for major decisions like food, photography, wedding gown, etc., you have to do it yourself.
- Hire a coordinator
The wedding coordinator will not only make wedding preparation easy but the wedding celebration smooth sailing too. Hiring a coordinator can help you a lot from the start of the wedding preparation till the end of the wedding celebration.
These professionals can take a lot of responsibilities off your back and can let you work on other important things for your wedding.
- Do not go beyond what you can afford
One of the things that stresses brides and grooms to be is expenses. If you want not to stress yourself over money, keep your options within your set budget. Going beyond what you can afford will not only stress you during wedding preparation and celebration but could be years after that.
Do not fit a wedding gown priced above your budget, or speak with a photographer who asks for a service fee beyond what you can afford. An extravagant wedding could be nice but unfortunately, not everyone can afford it.
- Plan everything early
Plan everything early, cramming can just add to your stress. Give yourself ample time to do what is necessary for your wedding. Speak to a couturier early, same as with the catering services and the like. Rushing will not do you any good, it will not just add stress but it can also encourage wrong decisions.
A month is not enough to prepare for a decent wedding, if you push too hard and squeeze in almost everything you need to prepare in a short period, it will end up a disaster.
- Speak your mind
Do not say yes all the time. If you are not happy or satisfied, say it. Do not hold back. If you consider all suggestions, you will just have a hard time managing what you need to work on for your wedding. It is your wedding, so there is no one better to know what is best than you.
- Marry the man you love
Of course, if you are marrying the man you love, all you can feel is happiness and excitement. All the stress and tiredness would be healed the moment you imagine yourself walking down the aisle while your most loved person in the world is waiting on the other end.
- Do not take everything too seriously
Enjoy the moment, same as with the wedding celebration, wedding preparation may only happen once in your lifetime. Enjoying the entire process is necessary if you want to have a stress free wedding. Embrace every moment and experience you are going through as the wedding is being prepared.
Although some decisions should be taken seriously, you have to wake up every morning with a smile on your face and excitement doing all the wedding preparation scheduled for the day.
- Relax when you are fed up
If you are tired, relax. There is no reason why won’t you give yourself a break. Do not consume all your energy and patience during wedding preparation. You can always step back and relax a bit.
Do not deprive yourself of a night of good sleep at night and a fun time with your family and friends.
There are a lot of things you can do to make your wedding preparation and celebration stress-free. It is your day hence indulging every moment of it with genuine happiness is a must.